Hook-ups are all fun unless your fuck buddy doesn’t take it casually and start bothering you after one or multiple sex encounters. It could be quite intimidating handing such situations, but you got to make sure that they are on the same page as you. So, how do you ensure it?
Start ignoring them or block them? Well, that would be a bit harsh.
Tell them straight forward that you are just not interested in meeting again? Honesty is an amazing thing but sometimes you do not want to hurt the other person’s feelings by saying it so clearly.
So, how about telling them directly that you are not interested in having any physical relationship again, but with kindness? We have created a list of some texts which won’t hurt your fuck buddy to read, yet would also convey the message that you are not looking forward to having any physical contact with them again.
1.What You Want To Say: It was fun, but I don’t want to do it again.
Text: I really enjoyed getting Chinese food with you after our hook-up, but I do not see anything romantic happening between us in the future. It was nice spending time with you.
2.What You Want To Say: I am really not interested in being friends.
Text: You are a really nice person to spend time with, but I am honestly not emotionally capable to build new friendships right now. I wish you good for your future.
3.What You Want To Say: I want to be just friends, and nothing more.
Text: I had an amazing time with you last week but I am currently only looking to be friends. In fact, a bunch of us are going to watch a soccer game today if you want to accompany.
4.What You Want To Say: I do not want to make this a regular thing.
Text: While I really appreciate and enjoy getting a late night booty call from somebody as attractive as you, I have to confess that I am not looking for a regular fling. I hope you find the kind of person you are looking for.
5.What You Want To Say: Thank you for a memorable time.
Text: I enjoyed being with you and the drink after sex, but I don’t think we should be seeing each other again. Wish you all the best for your future.
6.What You Want To Say: I only wanted a one-night stand.
Text: Thank you for the date and amazing time, but it was really a one-time thing for me.
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